Love with your dress on


Hi my dear, thanks for dropping by, I hope you had a lovely weekend and God has been good to you?

Hmm…just before we go into today’s blog post, I would like to say a very big and robust “thank you” for checking out “why sex misses the point” & spreading the word out to your community of family and friends. I was really humbled and couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw the number of views on that single post, I bet you were blessed and equipped with the right knowledge.

Thanks once again for sharing the message. Sincerely, you are the “bestest“.wink*  

As I sat in the bus heading to work on friday morning, several thoughts came running through my mind like flashes of light, and though I was physically in the bus …I was in a different world entirely- wondering and trying to fathom how we ever missed it, how we got to that place where we now equate love with sex and sex with love…  

The worldly view:

Love =  Sex  &  Sex =  Love

I said to myself , ” Whoever started this wrong&ungodly equation must have been a very naughty child, lost in selfishness and taken over by lust…

When did defining your love for someone equal sleeping with them?

Where is the pride of being a virgin?


The pleasure of waiting for the right man/woman & at the right time?  

In our world today, we are constantly being fed with ungodly and immoral information via every media available, and even when you choose not to watch them on tv, you end up hearing them being played in the saloon, on the bus and even at work. Promiscuity and “casual” sex has become the in-thing in town, and you are considered an “old- school” if you haven’t done it before.  

The godly view:

Love # Sex  &   Sex # Love

The truth is, love can never be sex nor sex, the only expression of love!

While sex is a demonstration of love(between a husband&his wife), and helps to “sustain” intimacy between them,  true love can never and was never meant to be built upon sex.

‘Leah had weak eyes, but Rachel was lovely in form and beautiful. Jacob was in love with Rachel and said,” I will work for you seven years in return for your younger daughter Rachel.”‘ Genesis 29:17-18  

No matter how primitive you might consider Jacob to be, that young man knew better than to sleep with Rachel whilst they weren’t married.  

“Seven years is quite a long time” you might say, but Jacob waited that long. That was a man who knew what self control really was, a man who knew that love isn’t sex and also showed us that we can love with our dresses on(even for seven good years).

The true measure of love in a pre- relationship is based on the ability to wait and control ones’ self, and not on the numbers of time we sleep with our partners.

You can love with your dress on. Wink*

PS. Ladies! If “he” can’t express his love to you with his clothes on while you guys are still single, then he is not fit to marry you because sooner or later( after your wedding) you will go on an official trip and he would have impregnanted the house maid before you return.

Hope you were blessed?

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Bless your darling heart.


Anuoluwapo Ademuyiwa


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4 thoughts on “Love with your dress on

  1. abenitemi November 11, 2013 at 9:47 pm Reply

    Love not Sex. it has never worked and it wont start to work now…….Be guided.

    • Anuoluwapo Ademuyiwa November 12, 2013 at 2:04 pm Reply

      Not even in the next century. Bless your darling heart…thanks for your comments.wink* Hope you have been good my dear Abenitemi?

  2. Blazyn November 12, 2013 at 8:26 pm Reply

    Nice piece… Often times,the pressure to belong and feel among the ‘new school’ can be very high, but we have A God working on us to aspire for the right way.. Well done dear!!

    • Anuoluwapo Ademuyiwa November 12, 2013 at 8:55 pm Reply

      Thanks for dropping by my dear blessing…you are right my dear, thank God for His grace and ability at work in us. Bless your darling heart. Peace&love.xo

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